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The forces of oppression have once again attacked the Iranian women who asked for their basic human rights. Although
men and women are under oppression in Iran, the extent of violation of the human rights of the Iranian women is far more
than the men. This is not due to the oppressive nature of the Iranian men; it is mainly due to the anti-women regulations of
Islam.


****The only way to get equal rights for the Iranian women is through a secular government. The role of women has a very
central position in the Islamic ideology of the dominant regime in Iran. The best proof for this claim is the Resalah(s) of all
main ayatollahs (especially those that are called the sources of emulation or Taqleed or imitation in the Shiite sect of Islam).
A quick look at the Resalahs or the Book of Rulings (or Fatwas) of the grand ayatollahs reveal that almost 70 percent of
their collection of Fatwas are devoted to the issues of women.

The Ayatollahs have especially mentioned many medical issues of women in great details in their books of rulings. The
reason is that the religious leaders have been misusing this issue for a long time. For the same reason the religious zealots
of Iran are not ready to accept any rights for the women out of the context of the limited approach of the early Islamic
ideology based on the views of the nomadic Arabs of 1400 years ago. Although Iran has joined the Universal Declaration of
Human rights (and its conventions regarding civil and political rights, and social and economic rights), the Mullahs of Iran
are not ready to say that men and women are human beings in the same level. This is a great shame for the people of Iran,
men and women equally.

In order to understand the depth of this problem I would like to mention once again the points that are contradictory in
Islam and the UN Convention on Eradication of the Discrimination Against women:

What does the Convention want from member states?

According to the UN Division for the Advancement of Women (http://www.UN.org/daw): "The Convention on the Elimination
of All Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW)... is often described as an international bill of rights for women... It
defines what constitutes discrimination against women and sets up an agenda for national action to end such
discrimination. The Convention defines discrimination against women as '...any distinction, exclusion or restriction made on
the basis of sex which has the effect or purpose of impairing or nullifying the recognition, enjoyment or exercise by women,
irrespective of their marital status, on a basis of equality of men and women, of human rights and fundamental freedoms in
the political, economic, social, cultural, civil or any other field.' By accepting the Convention, States commit themselves to
undertake a series of measures to end discrimination against women in all forms, including:

* To incorporate the principle of equality of men and women in their legal system,

* Abolish all discriminatory laws and adopt appropriate ones prohibiting discrimination against women,

* To establish tribunals and other public institutions to ensure the effective protection of women against discrimination,

* To ensure elimination of all acts of discrimination against women by persons, organizations or enterprises.

The Convention provides the basis for realizing equality between women and men through ensuring women's equal access
to, and equal opportunities in, political and public life - including the right to vote and to stand for election - as well as
education, health and employment. States parties agree to take all appropriate measures, including legislation and
temporary special measures, so that women can enjoy all their human rights and fundamental freedoms...Countries that
have ratified or acceded to the Convention are legally bound to put its provisions into practice. They are also committed to
submit national reports, at least every four years, on measures they have taken to comply with their treaty obligations."


The points of contradiction between the Islamic laws and the UN Convention are as follows:

1- According to the rules of Islam, women inherit half of men.

2- The blood money of women is half of men. It means that if a person kills a woman, he has to pay half of the figure
designated by the Islamic government for one man. The issue gets more interesting when we consider that the blood money
for some parts of men (like the private parts) is almost equal the one compete person. We may conclude the killing a woman
is cheaper than damaging certain parts of a man.

3- The right of divorce is absolutely with men.

4- Women are not allowed to travel (this is usually interpreted as setting their foot out of the main door in the house)
without direct permission of their husbands or male supervisors (in case of girls, divorcees, and so on, a male supervisor,
is designated to supervise the subject. In many case the supervisor may lack the moral competency and the sole criteria for
this designation is being male).

5- Women can stand as witness as half of a man. In other words two female witnesses are considered as one male witness.
This is strictly observed in the Islamic courts and the formal attestations.

6- Women are not allowed to be judge under any circumstances.

7- The right of child custody is always with men. (This, like many other points, is considered as blessing to women because
they do not have to bear the financial burden of keeping the children).

8- The women belonging to the religious minorities (especially those of the religions that are not considered People of the
Book) suffer all the points in a special way. They are subject to double inequality as women and as a member of a minority.

9- Men can have four wives and more concubines (a mixture of female slaves and third class wives) according to Islam. This
is discrimination unless women can also have four husbands (and more concubines: a mixture of male salves and third
class husbands).

10- According to the Islamic laws of all Islamic countries, the women who marry foreigners lose their nationality. This is not
the same for men.

11- In the case of changing the religion from Islam to anything else (Ertedad), men are immediately condemned to death, but
women have to be poisoned and beaten several times every day (at the five times of the daily prayer) until they give up the
new religion and return to the arms of Islam. Although this is rare advantage towards women, it is an indication of the lower
human status of woman that they should not be �wasted� for changing religion. By the way, this is against the Universal
Declaration of Human Rights.

12- There is a clear discrimination in Islamic rules about the clothing of men and women. According to the dominant
interpretations of Islamic code of dress, the woman should cover all of their body except than the circle of face, and hands
from wrist to fingers. The rest of women�s bodies are considered as equivalent to private parts (Owrat) that must be
concealed in the public. There are no such restrictions for men. Men are only called upon not to look passionately to
women.
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Beliefs can be dangerous. Religious, political, or romantic, they all share
one thing in common: they require unconditional acceptance despite all
information to the contrary. In teenaged bravado, I came to scrutinize all the
beliefs that had been imposed on me and found them wanting. A tall, dark
stranger, a revolutionary from an exotic land, drew me to him by the very
differences in beliefs and mindset he represented. I sensed the danger in
him, but what could be learned, or what new comfort zone attained, seemed
much more important to me. As a result, I found myself trapped in the
turbulent Iran of 1982. It was a place of contrasts: stark hostility, gracious
hospitality, beautiful arts, harsh theocrats, ancient architecture, dress, and
ways mixed easily with those of the modern day…. Lost in a flood of foreign
passions, I was eager to adapt and learn but unwilling to surrender the civil
rights I took for granted as an American. When I bore my first child and was
given no rights in raising him, I rebelled utterly.
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